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CATHOLIC CHARITIES
FORUM
Catholic Charities of Salina, Inc. |
Volume VII, Issue II |
| Winter 2007 |
Director’s Corner |
Help Us Brighten The Holidays For Needy Families |
Agencies' Projects
Show Successes |
Concordia Office Helps Military Couple|
Hispanic Youth
Programs Offered |
Finance Officer
Visits Model Program |
Work at Adult Day
Center Nears One-Year Mark |
Hays Outreach Office
Serves Many In Their Time Of Need |
Marriage for
Keeps Program Successful |
A Time To Celebrate|
Thank You To Our Donors
DIRECTOR'S CORNER
By Karen Hauser, Ed.D.
As prices rise, requests
for help increase
Catholic Charities has long
held a commitment to reducing poverty in America. This year our national office,
in grappling with the critical link between race and poverty approved the
document, “Poverty and Race: Overlapping Threats to the Common Good”. This is a
follow up to our Campaign to Reduce Poverty in America. These policy papers are
available online at www.catholiccharitiesusa.org.
I can quote for you a few disarming statistics from the paper such as the fact
that 37 million people—about 12.6 % of the population—live below the poverty
level. Poverty rates are higher in central cities and in rural areas and the
majority of people in poverty are the working poor. But recently, because of a
staff vacancy, I have seen it first hand in our offices as I have stepped in to
provide some of the direct services to our clients. Some of the poignant stories
of people who come in to our offices out of desperation because they have no
where else to go would break your heart. Because of our pregnancy maintenance
program, we see many women who are lacking in resources during this particularly
difficult time. Yesterday I met with two families. In both cases the husband was
working but the family did not have health insurance and the wife had not been
to a doctor for prenatal care because they could not afford it even though she
was already about seven months pregnant. They needed $400 to be seen at a clinic
plus there would be monthly charges and then the delivery charges from the
hospital. We were able to pledge a portion of the initial fee, but I know this
is going to be a huge hardship for the family.
I’ve seen another family in which the main wage earner was injured and not able
to work for two weeks. Because of that, he lost his job. The family is applying
for our adopt-a-family program for Christmas because this loss of income and
medical care has produced a crisis in their lives which will take them some time
to recover. In our rural areas we see the problems exacerbated by lack of both
medical care and transportation. A call for help came in the other day from
someone an hour away from the nearest service center. But what happens when the
individual doesn’t have reliable transportation or money for gas? I know many
people suffer in silence. I also understand why my staff tells me the top
priority needs to be funding for emergency assistance and why they get
discouraged when they are not able to adequately help those with legitimate
need.
I do promise that we will do the very best we can within the capacity of our
limited staff and financial resources to be there for those in need of help. It
may be listening and helping them identify additional resources to help as well
as committing our own financial aid within our capacity to do so. It may be
providing counseling for depression or marital issues. But overall, I think the
largest numbers of problems that bring people into our offices revolve around
central themes of lack of health coverage and loss of jobs and transportation
issues which lead to all kinds of other issues.
That is my soapbox right now because I do see an increase in numbers and type of
requests coming into our offices right now. People in the lower income brackets
experience the effect of rising gas prices and other commodities to a greater
degree and spend a much greater percentage of their income on basic needs.
The Campaign to Reduce Poverty in America has published a list of things we can
do to address poverty. Since I want to end on a more positive note, I will share
with you some of these recommendations which you and your family might want to
incorporate into your advent reflections and giving.
Things You Can do to Address Poverty
From The Campaign to Reduce Poverty in America
Reflect
• Pray for those whose lives are impacted by poverty.
(http://www.catholiccharitiesusa.org/poverty/pray.cfm)
• Use Scripture to deepen your understanding of poverty.
(http://www.catholiccharitiesusa.org/poverty/pray.cfm#scriptures)
• Familiarize yourself with Catholic social teaching on the poor.
(http://www.catholiccharitiesusa.org/poverty/cst.cfm)
Get Informed
• Educate yourself about poverty in your community and in the United States.
• Identify an issue that you are passionate about and can take action on.
Get Organized
• Develop or join a working group within your church and community-to help
spread the word and raise concerns about issues of poverty-make sure to involve
some low-income families on your work group.
• Share what you have learned with others in your community and encourage them
to take action too.
Get Involved
• Help in the local food bank, or other organizations helping the poor.
• Contact your local elected officials with specific concerns about poverty in
your community and ask for a staff contact for follow up.
Volunteer
• Learn about volunteering with Catholic Charities in your community. Contact
your local Catholic Charities agency to find out how you can serve your
community. (khauser@salhelp.org)
Donate
• Support your diocesan Catholic Charities’ efforts by donating. (You may
designate to a specific office or program.)
Catholic Charities of Salina, Inc.
P. O. Box 1366
Salina, KS 67402-1366
785-825-0208
www.catholiccharitiessalina.org
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HELP US BRIGHTEN THE HOLIDAYS FOR NEEDY
FAMILIES
During Advent, we prepare our hearts for Christmas.
This Advent, please open your heart in helping us prepare a
Christmas for families that do not have the resources to provide
their own.

The families we are helping are in crisis situations asking for
basic necessities. This year we are seeing an increase of
families in need, and they do not receive assistance from other
agencies. Last year, thanks to the generosity of many, we were
able to help 46 families. As we see gas, groceries, utilities
and other basic needs rise, our hope is to help provide the
toys, clothes, food and other special needs, which will make the
holidays brighter for the children and their parents. “It is
more blessed to give than to receive. Acts 20:35”

We will be glad to accept monetary donations; or call us for
details on the toys, clothes, food, or special needs, if you
wish to do the shopping yourself. We hope to have all donations
collected by December 7th, if possible.`
Make this Advent a special one, by helping us make the holidays
brighter for our families. To contribute to the project, please
call Maribel Panuco, at 785/827-4517, extension 15.
Thank you, from all of us at Catholic Charities!
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AGENCIES'
PROJECTS SHOW SUCCESSES
Intern Reports Her Observations of
Catholic Charities
By Molly Suter, Kansas Wesleyan Intern
Catholic Charities
is busy with projects such as the after school youth program. The children meet
after school around 5:00 p.m. on Tuesdays for various activities. Through grants
and donations they have a playground, computers and three rooms of simple but
fun and educational activities for the children. This is all made possible with
the help of grants and donations. On October 21st they participated
in a pumpkin carving project and they also celebrated Halloween with a party at
the skating rink. On regular days they can use the computer lab or get help
with homework. Activities involve small and large motor dexterity as well as
focus on the development of language and social skills.
The adult
programs at Catholic Charities are also still going well. The first “Marriage is
for Keeps” class finished up in Manhattan in October and the second one begins
in February. In the meantime, couples have the opportunity to participate in
supplemental activities such as the “10 Great Dates” program. It seemed to be
a success.

The
organization also recently had a high school observer. Karen Hauser stated that,
“A student from South high observed at the Salina office. It’s an opportunity
to find out how services are provided. It gives youth a look at the work
environment and provides information about career opportunities in the social
service field. We try to educate students about the important role of
faith-based organizations in helping the poor.”

One of the former
volunteers turned employee of Catholic Charities stated, “What’s unique about
our charity is that we have multiple focuses, whereas other organizations may
choose one area to focus on.” That is completely true; Catholic Charities
offers services from adoption, respect-life information, programs for youth and
children, marriage counseling, legal immigration services, loan programs, and
other financial programs for the poorer individuals.
Molly Sutter
is learning about feature writing in her class at Kansas Wesleyan and decided
she wanted to learn more about Catholic Charities.
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CONCORDIA OFFICE HELPS MILITARY COUPLE
Military Couple Becomes a Family with Help from Catholic Charities of Concordia
James and Sally Butler (*not
their real names) called Catholic Charities in desperation to see if they could
find a way to get help with adopting their niece, Abby*. Sally had been told by
several agencies that because of their military status, as a family they would
not be eligible for services.
Husch Hathorne, LSCSW social worker from the Concordia office took Sally’s call
and decided to find a way to assist the Butler’s with their quest to adopt their
niece and provide the baby with a permanent home.
The Butlers are a military family living on Fort Riley in housing provided by
the base. They were married seven years and attempted to have children on their
own, but were never successful due to Sally’s infertility. When Sally’s brother
informed the family he was not able to parent the baby (the baby’s birthmother
was drug dependent), Sally saw an opportunity for the baby to have a permanent
family, and, the couple to create their family. She offered to become guardian
for the baby and her brother agreed.
That was 19 months ago and now they are going to be able to finalize the
adoption through the help of a private attorney who asked the couple to contact
Catholic Charities for a last step in the process-a home study evaluation.
James Butler, is a Staff Sergeant in the Army and has served two rotations of
duty in Iraq. He enlisted in the Army thirteen years ago and is a career soldier
in the Infantry. Sally relays that James may be called for yet a third rotation
in Iraq, perhaps as soon as fall 2008. James is stoic about his service to his
country. He relays that he has suffered some difficulties from the tours of duty
and he is hopeful about not having to return for one more rotation-but adds if
he is called, he will go. James describes Abby as “the light of my light” and
adds that Abby is a “Daddy’s girl” all the way.
Abby was born with multiple special needs and has needed specialized medical and
rehabilitation care. The couple just gets by on a small military income and
finding funds to pay for the adoption has been a struggle.
As a way to support this family in their remarkable service to their country,
Catholic Charities has provided the home study service to the couple as a Thank
You for their service. We hope for a peaceful coming year in which James will
be able to stay closer to home with his wife and new daughter.
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HISPANIC YOUTH PROGRAMS OFFERED
By Maribel Panuco, Hispanic
Services Coordinator, and Corrie Christy, Intern
In the past
decade, Catholic Charities has established Hispanic youth programs to meet the
growing needs in Salina. Some statistics suggest that Hispanics make up 10
percent of the population in the city. A number of Hispanics are served by
Catholic Charities in applying for residency and citizenship. The children of
these immigrants live in split worlds—a world that is split by language,
economics, and by minority status. This organization strives to give the youth
opportunities that might otherwise not be available to them. We provide
leadership opportunities and encourage them to continue education, abstain from
drugs and alcohol, and to stay away from gangs. We are a safe place for the
Hispanic community’s youth to socialize and we enjoy being active and a positive
influence in their lives. We hope that these programs will encourage the growth
of healthy, happy, productive citizens for the future.
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FINANCE OFFICER VISITS MODEL PROGRAM
Jose Arias, Finance Officer for Catholic Charities of
Salina, was recently selected to review an award winning model program of
Catholic Social Services in North Carolina. His report follows.
By Jose Arias
· “I get to work on time thanks to the
caring people at Catholic Social Services (CSS), and now I can supply for my
family.”
· “It was not the first time a set of
keys have been put in my face; but this time I actually got to keep the car, it
was the best feeling I have had for a long time.”
· “I have six children and was pregnant
with my seventh: low paying job, minimal education, and the worst, a husband who
hardly provided for us. I was on the verge of disparity; but not until I found
CSS and with their help I am back on track. I was able to go back to school and
recently received my Registered Nurse certification and two of my six kids are
now in college.”
These are just some the success stories that were told during
my site visit to North Carolina, to view the Family Strengthening program that
C.S.S. provides in four different counties; Cherokee, Clay, Graham, and Swain,
Clay being one of the poorest ones.
There are three important factors in the success of their
program, the first can be contributed to Far West Families First (FWFF), an
outreach ministry that matches families in need with ecumenical faith teams who
provide support and encouragement as they strive to reach goals they have set
for themselves.
“The support teams that are set up with the families play a
key role in helping them achieve their goals, without them it would be more
difficult,” said Netta McFaddin, FWFF Coordinator.
The second important factor would be the Office of Economic
Opportunity (OEO), which provides grants to assist economic development
activities of organizations committed to sustainable economic growth in western
North Carolina through funds provided by a restricted Diocese of Charlotte
Economic Development Fund.
The third and final is a financial literacy program called
ABLE, this program offers individuals and families the opportunity to attend
financial literacy workshops and seminars. They meet with a trained counselor
from On Track Consumer Credit Counseling Services for “one-on-one” sessions to
develop a plan of action for debt repair, debt repayment or budgeting one’s
resources. The OEO is capable to offer these classes in their newly Msgr. West
Financial Literacy Computer Lab that holds fours computers, printers, faxes, and
financial software programs.
As part of Catholic Charities I am proud to say that we are
not to far from achieving the same goals as North Carolina; we offer Emergency
assistance and with our new endeavor, a micro-loan and a financial literacy
program, I believe we can have the same success stories.
Claudie Burchfield, program Director for OEO, said “The most
powerful thing we can leave you with as you go forward is simple but true; never
forget to treat each client as you would wish to be treated if the roles were
reversed.”
How truthful is that, I invite anyone and everyone who is
interested in helping us achieve our goals to come visit me at Catholic
Charities and together we CAN.
Call Jose Arias at Catholic Charities of Salina,
(785) 825-0208, or e-mail
jarias@salhelp.org
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WORK AT ADULT DAY CENTER NEARS ONE-YEAR MARK
In January 2007, Josephine Hernandez, a social worker for Catholic Charities,
began providing a support group for clients of the Sunflower Adult Day Center.
Mary Sue Wells, the Director of the Center, believed that patients experiencing
early dementia could show improvement through challenging physical and mental
activities which would help them maintain their level of functioning for an
extended period of time. That was when she asked us to get involved by providing
a therapeutic support group. We chose Josephine, a licensed clinical social
worker, to take up the challenge. She first traveled to Oklahoma to observe a
model program in operation there and then put together her own curriculum for
the group.
Groups vary in size but generally range from 6 to 9 people. The emphasis is on
participation with peers and communications. Some of the topics covered include
unexpected moves, life changes, diminishing strengths and functioning, coping
skills, and role changes including being bossed by the kids and others. One
participant who had initially been resistant to joining the group stated, “I
actually enjoy talking with people my age with similar experiences.”
When asked what she does in these groups, Josephine concluded there were three
essential components: 1) providing respectful encouragement; 2) validating their
response; and 3) developing group cohesiveness by helping people identify with
others in similar circumstances.
Clients of the Adult Day Center are dealing with diminished functioning and loss
of independence. While most are living with a spouse or children or other
caregivers, they have experienced life changes and a sense of no longer being in
control. Many become depressed which leads to greater lack of pleasure and
diminished functioning. Coming to the Sunflower Adult Day Center, some clients
have shown remarkable improvement when confronted with activities such as art
and music, cooking, gardening, and conversation with others their age. The
therapeutic support group helps them to bring some of their fears out into the
open and to bond with others in similar situations.
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HAYS OUTREACH OFFICE SERVES MANY
IN THEIR TIME OF NEED
The Hays Outreach Office of
Catholic Charities provides marriage, couple, family, and individual counseling;
crisis pregnancy counseling; adoption services; a Divorce Support Group; and
referral Immigration Services to clients in Northwest Kansas.
Counseling services are provided by Fr. Bill Surmeier, Janet Russell, and
Belinda Hartman, all licensed professionals with many years of experience in
their field. Joan Perkins, office manager, has worked for the agency for 20
years.
Insurance or a sliding scale
fee is used for payment for counseling. Counseling services are provided at no
cost to women/men/their families in crisis pregnancies. The agency recognizes
those in crisis pregnancies face anxiety and uncertainty, and can help clients
explore their thoughts and feelings while considering parenting their child, or
placing that child for adoption. Our agency encourages fully open adoptions but
will work with birthparents choosing confidential placements.
Our confidential services are
provided to those in need regardless of race, religion, creed, or financial
status, with the goal of promoting harmony in emotional, psychological,
relational, and spiritual dimensions. The staff recognizes that families and
individuals face tremendous challenges at times. We are here to help those
in need through these times and to learn to build on their own inner strength.
The Hays office recently received a letter
that serves as an example of how Catholic Charities can positively affect lives.
As in keeping with our policy of confidentiality for our clients, identifying
information has been removed.
The writer had used our services many years
ago and thanked our agency for the help given during what was probably the
lowest point and most difficult time in life. The former client stated
that nothing was going right but that our agency was there to help. The
writer thanked us for our help, stating that it was given even though not much
of a fee was able to be paid for services.
Believing that if Catholic Charities' help
had not been sought, the client would not be as happy in life today, a donation
was enclosed to be used for someone in this client's similar circumstances.
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MARRIAGE
FOR KEEPS PROGRAM SUCCESSFUL
By Danna Aves, Kansas State University Intern
The first group to go through Marriage for Keeps classes in
Manhattan has completed its session. Five couples graduated from
the program.
Fedra Zamphiropolos, Regional Coordinator for the Marriage for
Keeps project, said the free marriage enrichment classes are
part of a federally funded research program with the goal of
improving marriages and lowering the divorce rate in the
country.
“Communication is one of the many techniques learned to improve
relationships and to communicate better,” Zamphiropolos said.
Some of the other areas covered in the classes include stress
and relaxation, how to deal with issues in a healthy way and
commitment, to name a few. Reg and Jan Konrade are instructors
for the classes.
David
and Shana Ekart were one of the couples who graduated from the
first session. They said they felt they gained the most from the
communication techniques.
“We learned how to have effective conversations with the
techniques they taught us,” Shana said.
The Ekarts also said they loved the group activities because it
was fun interacting with the other couples. They said they met
some nice people who they’d like to keep in touch with. The
couple has even recommended the classes to a few more couples.
In between now and the next Marriage for Keeps session, the
Manhattan office will provide free extended marriage activities
open to the public called 10 Great Dates. A book is provided to
give the couples inexpensive dates to go on.
“The couples are supposed to come and watch a half an hour video
clip about one specific topic, and then they go on a date and
discuss about that topic. The topics are supposed to improve
their relationship,” Zamphiropolos said.
The next 13-week session of Marriage for Keeps will start on
February 7, 2008 in Manhattan. The classes take place at St.
Thomas More Church on Thursday evenings. A free dinner is
provided before the class, and free child care is available as
well. All of this could not happen without the help of
volunteers and donations, which are still greatly needed. For
more information, please call Catholic Charities in Manhattan at
(785) 537-7066 or e-mail Fedra at fedraz@sbcglobal.net.
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A TIME TO CELEBRATE
By Danna Aves, Kansas State University Intern
A final celebration for Manhattan’s Marriage for Keeps group took place on
October 25, 2007 at the Clarion Hotel in Manhattan.
Participating couples were
rewarded for completing the 13-week session with a certificate of completion.
Fedra Zamphiropolos, Regional
Coordinator for the Marriage for Keeps project, said most of the planning for
the event took about 1 month.
A buffet dinner was provided,
and the couples took part in many fun activities such as the Newlywed game and a
balloon-popping activity. The couples brought their kids to join in the
celebration as well.
Zamphiropolos said she could
tell how close the couples had gotten with each other by the way they interacted
at the celebration.
“I think they liked it and
had a lot of fun. The environment was fun, and the couples were much more
affectionate with each other.”
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THANK YOU TO OUR DONORS
Catholic
Charities wishes to recognize those who contributed to the charitable works of
the Diocese in 2007. We appreciate all that you have done to help us provide
services to over 2,500 persons in need of help. If you have contributed and do
not see your name on the list, please contact us to let us know so we can
recognize you in the next newsletter. (This list does not reflect names of
those of you who donated through the Annual Catholic Charities Envelope
Collection.)
Bequest:
Loretto E. Martin
Donald J. Moody
Celestine E. Rogers
Memorials:
Bill Anderson
Elena Cabral
Earl Donnelly
William McLaughlin
Katherine Riley
Dr. & Mrs. Duane Scott
Glen Sweat
Donations:
Don Anderson
LarryBlochlinger
Catholic Daughters of America
Gerald & Ima Chavey
Alex Curiel
Diocesan Migrant & Refuge Service
Diocese of Salina
Maurice Flavin
David Forristal
Thomas Forristal
Rosanne Gillis
Louise Girarde
Joe & Jane Handlos
Ted & Karen Hauser
Dan & Peggy Hebert
Jerome & Susan Hellmer
Mr. & Mrs. Gerald Hunter
Dennis Jackson
Mr. & Mrs. Jacobs
JDR Management
Charlie & Denise Joslin
Jeff & Jennifer Koch
Diane Kuffler
Alvin Kuhn
L'Ecuyer Farms
Maurice Lorson
Manhattan Community Foundation
Michael Martin
Dana & Virginia Morse
OLPH Catholic Thrift Shop
Osborn Properties
Greg Paglia
Dorothy La Rocque
Sacred Heart Cathedral
Sacred Heart Council of Catholic Women
Sacred Heart Junior-Senior High School
St. Nicholas of Myra Church
Catherine Sedlacek
Sisters of St. Joseph of Concordia
J.M. Zerr
Corporate
Donations:
Access Storage, Inc.
AG Edwards
Brown & Vogel
Citywide Self Storage
Crestwood
Grain Belt Supply Company
Great Plains Manufacturing, Inc.
Green Lantern
Hauser & Associates
Pestinger Heating & Air Conditioning
Pinnacle Bank
Val & Tina Rohleder
Schwan’s Manufacturing
Solomon Corporation
Saint Elizabeth’s Church
Saint Mary’s Church
Sunflower Bank
UMB National Bank
Grants
AT&T
Greater Salina Community Foundation
Kansas Arts Commission
Manhattan Community Foundation
Middlekauff Foundation
McCune Foundation
Salina Charities
Samson Foundation
The Earl Bane Foundation
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